A short quiz to discover the pattern shaping how you experience love.
Whether you are dating, in a relationship, married, feeling disconnected from your partner or wondering whether there is anyone out there for you, your answers can reveal what happens when connection begins to matter.
What is actually keeping you where you are?
Do you keep dating the same person in a different body? Are you struggling to navigate differences in your relationship? Has your marriage or partnership lost its spark or begun to feel complacent? Or have you simply stopped looking altogether?
If you are not currently seeing anyone, answer with your most recent relationship in mind—or consider how you tend to feel and respond once someone new starts to matter.
Choose the answer that feels closest to your usual response, even if it is not an exact fit. Honest answers will give you the most useful result.
The four Love Identity Codes translate commonly recognised adult attachment patterns into clear, everyday language. They describe relational tendencies—not diagnoses, fixed identities or permanent labels.
Recognition is the beginning. The harder part is knowing what to do when your code takes over.
Your result helps you recognise the pattern. Your personalised playbook shows you how it operates in real relationships — what activates it, what it is trying to protect and how to interrupt it without abandoning your needs or ignoring genuine relationship problems.
Inside your personalised playbook:
- Your activation signs and hidden protective strategy
- Triggered prediction versus useful relationship information
- The Decode → Interrupt → Recode process
- Practical scripts for difficult relationship moments
- Compatibility guidance for all four Love Identity Codes
Instant access · Created for your specific Love Identity Code