A short quiz to discover the pattern shaping how you experience love.
Whether you are dating, in a relationship, married, feeling disconnected from your partner or wondering whether there is anyone out there for you, your answers can reveal what happens when connection begins to matter.
What is actually keeping you where you are?
Do you keep dating the same person in a different body? Are you struggling to navigate differences in your relationship? Has your marriage or partnership lost its spark or begun to feel complacent? Or have you simply stopped looking altogether?
If you are not currently seeing anyone, answer with your most recent relationship in mind, or consider how you tend to feel in the context of the question.
Choose the answer that feels closest to your usual response, even if it is not an exact fit. Honest answers will give you the most useful result.
The four Love Identity Codes translate commonly recognised adult attachment patterns into clear, everyday language. They describe relational tendencies—not diagnoses, fixed identities or permanent labels.